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Saturday, December 20, 2014

The Cold Never Bothered Me Anyway

Today is the first day of Winter, y'all!

It's still touch and go with the weather here in Alabama, but there is a rumor of some snow flurries for Christmas Eve, so I'm crossing my fingers for that!

The items pictured below are all things I've been crushing on for winter time.
We all need to be warm and cozy...but also cute.
Do you seem the dilemma?
These are the perfect answer.





The vests come from J.Crew Factory & Old Navy and are perfect for layering.
The puffer jacket is great for you ladies who are dealing with seriously low temps.
The buffalo check coat is stylish and warm-perfect for dressing up or dressing down.
And the accessories are all from H&M so they're not only adorable but also affordable!


Stay warm, y'all!

Until next time. . .

xoxo, 



Friday, December 19, 2014

Holiday Party Outfit Inspiration

Christmas is by far my favorite time of year & it isn't even about the presents (although presents are pretty cool!), but I really enjoy getting to spend extra time with my friends & seeing family members that I don't get to see on a regular basis.

My favorite part about this season are all of the get-togethers; I think of them as the most perfect excuse to wear my most festive clothes and get all dressed up. . .
(Ask C, I'm always the most dressy person at every single event!)

Today I wanted to give you a little bit of inspiration, because even the biggest fashionistas need some ideas every now & then!

Below, I'll be sharing four different ideas.
They are all dresses; two are for festive Christmas gatherings, one is for a more casual Christmas dinner, & then lastly is a dress that would be perfect for a New Year's Eve dinner or party!

Look Number One:

A Gift For You Dress, Red

This is the "A Gift For You" dress from The Mint Julep Boutique.
The tartan is absolutely gorgeous and so festive.
This would be perfect for a fancy family dinner or meeting your boyfriends parents for the first time over the holidays.
I suggest pairing it with these statement earrings (bonus points if you pull your hair up into a low bun!), this sweater, and these shoes.
This outfit is a winner for sure!


Look Number Two:

All The Trimmings Dress, Dark Green

This is another beauty by the Mint Julep Boutique, the "All the Trimmings" dress.
It's the flowy answer to the ever-lasting question of, "What do I wear to Christmas this year?!"
And hey, if your grandmother is going to ask you when you're getting married for the 640th time, wouldn't you at least rather be wearing this gorgeous number?
I suggest wearing long straight or curled hair & pulling it back halfway to show off these studs.
Personally, I think this outfit calls for a statement necklace as well, so how about this one?
Pair these pumps for a classic look, or go a little on the wild side with these booties.

Look Number Three:


This more casual option is from Lime Lush Boutique.
If you're just having a casual lunch with your grandparents or maybe with just your parents and siblings, I think this dress would be the perfect, comfy-yet-cute option!
You can layer it with tights or if you're brave, go-bare-legged!
This necklace, bracelet, & these earrings would be the perfect finishing touches.
Wear your hair down and loose or maybe pull it into an Elsa braid, just remember to keep it casual and fun!

Look Number Four:


Okay, I'll be the first to admit that I'm more of a "going out to dinner & out for drinks" on New Year's Eve kind of girl, not really a party girl.
But this dress is perfect if you're going to a party or out with all of your girlfriends, etc.
This is from The Flaunt Shop & it's the "Evening Getaway" dress.
It's everything a girl could want; glitter, glamour, and a very sexy back that you just have to see.
Wear it with these earrings and these booties for a look that will have everyone wishing they could be your midnight kiss.



I hope y'all enjoyed this little post that I put together, I know that it doesn't apply to everyone but someone somewhere out there needed some ideas.
I know I have a get-together this weekend that I've got to be planning for!

Until next time. . .

xoxo, 


Wednesday, December 17, 2014

Wedding Wednesday

I haven't done a Wedding Wednesday post in forever, but today I decided it might be a refreshing change from all of the Christmas posts that have been going up lately.

But never fear, I have a cocktail post going up tomorrow that should fit right in with your Christmas get-togethers & on Friday, be on the lookout for a post on what to wear to your Christmas gatherings!

For today, we're going to jump into weddings & let me inspire all of you brides-to-be. . .

Rose Gold color palette for my rose gold and morganite wedding rings and blush wedding dress perfect!
via

I love this sweet, soft color palette for a wedding, especially a Spring one. The gold and rose go together so perfectly.

beautiful floral arch | Kristyn Hogan #wedding

This wedding arch is so whimsical and dainty.
Actually, it reminds me of a garden party-which is perfect for a Spring wedding!

Country Bride, gorgeous shot

Bridal portraits are often forgotten because photography really is an expensive part of the big day.
But I think if you're putting so much effort into the dress, etc. that it is important to commemorate the bride herself.
I love this shot, it's so romantic and different than your average shot.

ring bearer and flower girl

How cute are these two little bitties?
Having your ring bearer reflect your style of wedding, rustic, etc. is a great way to keep with the theme.
I love the idea of the flower girl wearing a simple little sundress too-so light & pretty!

Buttons & Lace

This dress is everything.
Fitted, lace details, buttons, and the fluff at the bottom are all to die for.

Please. Just... sweep me off my feet. It's OUR day; I don't care if people find it silly. His face... priceless.

Just sweep me off my feet, literally.
I don't care how silly it may seem-but it's our day.
Plus, this picture is priceless.


I hope y'all enjoyed this little inspiration post.
I'm counting down the days until I get to marry my very best friend.
& this Christmas break is going to be full of getting things in-line for the wedding.
It's busy & crazy but I'm so excited & thankful that I get to plan the wedding of my dreams to the man of my dreams!

Until next time. . .

xoxo, 


Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Holiday Decor Inspiration

I have to admit, I went from being stressed out about school to completely trying to block out anything but soaking up every second of relaxation that comes with the Christmas season.

I thought for a moment that I had kind of lost my sense of creativity and direction for the blog, but fear not!

I have a plan for the direction that I see The Southern Stylista going within the next year & I can't wait to see what y'all think.
I intend on doing my first "style" post after the beginning of the year, those are just difficult for me because I grew up being unsure of what others think of me & also because it's difficult to get anyone to take decent pictures around here!
But I'm working on both of those ;)

For today, I want to share with y'all some of my favorite decorating inspiration that I have found for the holiday season.
I know we don't have many days left to enjoy the decorations (does anyone else think Christmas should last more than one month?!), but I think that y'all will enjoy the re-cap of the things that have inspired me.

decorated staircases for christmas | Southern 'n Sassy: Christmas Garland On the Stairs

I love, love, love the look of this lighted garland!
I had intended on doing something similar to our banister this year, but it just didn't happen with the way finals & decorating time collided.
But I have bookmarked it for next year (I might be able to score some lighted garland on the cheap after Christmas!)

Hand painted Lilly ornament. I have images of a Lilly tree in my head!

I am obsessed with Lilly Pulitzer & these hand-painted ornaments spoke to my heart.
Wouldn't these be so much fun on a white tree in a girly apartment or dorm room?
Or if you're a Mama, on the tree in your little girls room?
I also think it would be fun to get together with your girlfriends & paint ornaments together & have a cookie swap or something :)

Cowboy Christmas

Christmas at our house is always a rustic affair, from our burlap stockings & tree skirt to the star up top made out of sticks.
But this tree is the perfect definition of a cowboy Christmas!
Check out the rope wound throughout the tree, the bandana tied on, & the cowboy hat topper!
I am so obsessed with how fun & whimsical this tree is.
If you didn't want it in your living room, this would be a fun man-cave or little boy's room Christmas tree!

Over the fireplace decor.

Chalk art is a huge trend this year & I am obsessed with it-although no one wants to see me try to be artsy with a piece of chalk!
I love this mantle decor, the fresh greenery really brightens up the starkness of the other decor.
Plus, I love the idea of creating a chalkboard and putting it inside such a fancy frame-it's a piece you can redecorate and reuse all year long!

A Whole Bunch Of Christmas Porch Decorating Ideas - Christmas Decorating -

I love to go all-out for Christmas, but our porch decor is always on the simple side.
This year at my house, we just have two large poinsettias on our steps, two large lighted trees by the doors, & our two letter U's on the door with burlap ribbon.

But this porch is more like it.
I love the bountiful wreath, the lighted lanterns, & all the lighted garland and SNOW!
It just screams festive. :)

I hope y'all enjoyed the inspiration that I shared today.
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Until next time. . .

xoxo, 


Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Christmas Playlist

Let's get something straight.
I'm not one of those people that can start playing Christmas music before Thanksgiving and last all the way until the wrapping paper is packed up after Christmas, I'm just not.

But I do love Christmas songs, just only after Thanksgiving!

So when SiriusXM turned their Prime Country channel into Country Christmas after Thanksgiving, I wasn't that upset.
& you know what? I've found some new favorites for the season :)

I wanted to share with y'all some of my favorite songs (from multiple genres!)
It came out to be seven songs...don't ask me how I came up with seven, hah!



The Duck The Halls CD (by the cast of Duck Dynasty with many special guests!) will probably forever be one of my favorite Christmas albums, simply because parts of it will make you tear up at the sweetness while other parts will have you in tears because of how funny it is!
This first song is actually a duet with Josh Turner and Missy, so it's really sweet & shares the real meaning behind Christmas :)

We've discussed how Alabama is one of my all-time favorite groups & Christmas in Dixie is my all time favorite Christmas song in the history of ever. There is just something about it that makes me feel cozy, no matter where I am. You know they say that Southern really is just a state of mind ;)

Ever since This Christmas the movie came out, it's been one of my favorites & this song might be part of the reason why. Chris Brown's vocals are great & it just makes me want to be with my family.

I got Cold December Night as a free download from Starbucks one year & then fell in love with the entire Michael Buble Christmas album. Each song is perfect, but this one is different than your average holiday song.

Wrapped in Red is a song I discovered on Country Christmas & I must confess...I'm not much of a Kelly Clarkson fan, but this song may convert me.
It is so special, especially for you ladies who need to take some risks this Christmas-check it out!

All I have to say about this version of Santa Baby is that Clare Bowen is my favorite.
I recently discovered that the cast of Nashville did a Christmas album so I'm sure after I get a chance to listen to it tonight, it will be on repeat so I'm going to go on and tell y'all to check it out (since Nashville is my favorite show ever!)

And lastly, Lady A takes Christmas songs...originally I discovered their Christmas music with their version of This Christmas (which is SO good), but this song blew me away as well.


I hope y'all enjoyed another playlist post, they seemed to have been a favorite in the past & I like doing themes ;)
If you want to see my playlist on Spotify click here and see it as it grows for the rest of the month of December!

Until next time. . .

xoxo, 



Monday, December 8, 2014

Survival Guide: Finals Edition

Y'all, finals week is upon us.
I've been pulling a Scarlet O'Hara in the weeks leading up to this. . .


But now it's time & I'm not ready...but hey, maybe y'all are!

Just in case, I wanted to post a little survival guide to aid you in studying & taking your finals.

Step One: Listen to classical music while you study


My personal favorite's are Debussy & Vivaldi, but chose your own!
You can either YouTube search for the songs or you can choose from one of the tons of playlists that Spotify users have put together for this exact purpose.
Plus, studies have shown that listening to classical music while you study improves concentration. :)


Step Two: Hydrate!


Once again, with the "studies have shown", but seriously if you stay hydrated it will not only make you feel better, but it will help your test scores!
Crack the books and keep a big tervis full of ice water (bonus points if it has lemon in it!) to help keep your mind & body clear.


Step Three: Get a good night's rest the night before your test.


No, your bedroom doesn't have to look like it was ripped from the pages of a Garnet Hill magazine, but it does need to be cool, dark, and a have a comfy bed in it.
I know all-nighters are tempting, but you'll do so much better if you're well rested.

Step Four: Eat a healthy, hearty breakfast


Your mom probably always told you this growing up, but starting your morning off with a healthy, hearty breakfast really will make your day go better.
You'll be tempted to speed through your test if your stomach is making sounds that resemble a whale's mating call.
Some of my breakfast staples are yogurt, oatmeal, fruit, hard-boiled eggs, and bagels (not all at the same time!)
I must have my coffee in the AM, but orange juice is also good!


Step Five: Stay calm, be prepared, & ace the test!


The biggest tip I have is simply to stay calm, if you don't freak out-the better you will do.
Make sure you come prepared; if you need blue books or scantrons, make sure you have them before you walk into the classroom. If you're nice, I would suggest picking up a few extra in case someone forgot theirs, you never know how much it would help someone if you were able to hand them one of your extras when they're panicking because they forgot theirs. 
And lastly, ace that test!



If Luke Bryan believes in you, you know you're going to do well ;)

Good luck y'all!

Until next time. . .

xoxo, 


Saturday, December 6, 2014

November Favorites

Y'all, I had a plan.
I made a to-do list.
I was going to write every. single. day. out of last week.

But yeah, life happened so that definitely didn't happen.


This week was the last week of regular classes before my last two finals next week, so it was full of presentations, a paper, and tying up loose ends before the semester comes to a close.

So tonight, even though this isn't a regular posting time (or posting day!) I want to share last month's favorites with y'all so enjoy!
Twisted Peppermint 3-Wick Candle - Home Fragrance 1037181 - Bath & Body Works

It wouldn't be a Favorites blog unless I included the candle from Bath & Body Works that I've been burning lately & this one is incredible.
It is so sweet & minty, but not in an overpowering kind of way.
It's the perfect scent for the holidays!



I bought this vest way back in August because 1) they were on sale & 2) I heard that they sell out really fast, so I jumped on it.
Once it arrived, I panicked. How much would I really wear this?!

Well, the answer is...almost every single day.
It's so easy to layer over everything from sweaters to long-sleeved tees.
I even wore it to my wedding dress appointment *I found THE DRESS by the way!*


AEO Jegging Sweater


Ya know when I mentioned wearing the vest above over sweaters?
This is the exact sweater I was suggesting.
It comes in so many great colors and I own...four...yeah, I'm not even sorry.


Monogram App

Call me a typical white girl, call me a Southern belle, I don't care.
If it's not moving, I'm more than likely going to monogram it.
This app has SO many cute backgrounds (plus you can use your own pictures!)
I think it's free & then you can buy upgrades for just a few dollars.
It's one of my favorite apps! 
**If you're interested in a "What's On My Phone" post, let me know in the comments!**


Favorite Shows: 


I finally got caught up on Grey's Anatomy, so Private Practice was of course my next step & I have to say that I love love love it. It's almost as good as Grey's, just with less eye candy. 


Trisha's Southern Kitchen is also one of my "must-watch" shows, she's so down-to-Earth & hilarious.
Plus, every recipe she makes is something that I would make for my own fiance' and family.


Omg, omg, omg...I love the Pioneer Woman! 
Can you tell I spend wayyy too much time watching The Food Network?
Ree is the exact type of woman that I inspire to be, she is a great wife & mom, her home is absolutely gorgeous, and she is an amazing cook.
Plus, the ranch they live on? The blog she writes? It's all perfect & exactly how I want to be when I "grow up".


Favorite Video:


I try to get into Dancing With the Stars every year & I just can't.
I watched this episode though & this video had me absolutely cracking up!
I'm honestly surprised Tommy Chong didn't have a heart attack during this dance.
Plus, when he mouths "talk dirty to me" it makes me almost cry from laughing so hard.
Go. Watch it. Now!


Favorite Songs:


Wild Child: Kenny Chesney

This totally describes me perfectly, specifically the line "She's a wild child, got a rebel soul with a whole lot of gypsy wild style". It's such a sweet, easy-to-listen-to song. Grace Potter's voice also lends that little extra something that makes it perfect.


High Cotton: Alabama

This song is close to my heart for a couple of reasons & this month I've been bringing back this oldie but goodie.
First of all, the band Alabama is obviously from Alabama (fun fact, C knows Randy Owen & his family, they raise purebred Hereford and Angus cattle at their farm Tennessee River Music Farm)
Plus, this farm just reminds me of the way my daddy talked about growing up & it also relates to my connection of the land that I love.
"We were walkin' in high cotton, old times there are not forgotten, those fertile fields are never far away"
It's perfect for singing at the top of your lungs while you drive down back roads or even just listening to it playing softly in the background while you're cramming for finals!


I hope y'all enjoyed my random miscellaneous favorites for this month, I know they were all over the place!

Be on the lookout this coming up week (maybe even tomorrow!) for a post of my tips for surviving finals week, my Christmas playlist, & my top 10 gifts $20 and under!

I can't wait until next time!

Until then. . .

xoxo, 

  
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