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Saturday, March 11, 2017

Insta Lately

Hey y'all!


I hope this Saturday post finds you well & I hope you're enjoying my Saturday posting schedule that I've had going on here lately.

I know that only posting one day a week isn't ideal, but I also hope you understand that this is an incredibly busy & tiring season in my life and I'm doing the best I can with what I have...and of course I want to love blogging & not have it become burdensome!


But today isn't about that, today is about sharing the behind-the-scenes of some of my instagrams & any products that I might've used with y'all.

I hope you enjoy this post-let's just jump in!

Some of the links below are affiliate links; if you purchase using one of the links I get a small percentage. Thank you for supporting Southern & Style!

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My china cabinet/hutch in our dining area is one of my favorite parts of our house.
Chris purchased it for me as a surprise and it sat in our basement for a long while because it needed some TLC; then one of our good friends redid it in white while leaving the wood that backed it original and now I love it and it's probably my favorite piece of furniture that I own.

These china pieces that you see were wedding gifts to me from my Gran (my mom's mother) and they are the most precious heirlooms that I have.
I love displaying them and telling people the story of how they came to be-they mean so much more to me than china I could've registered for at any store!

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This shot reminds me of why I love being a part of the farming & agricultural industry...because we get to own land that looks like this, with these incredibly old oak trees and beautiful sunsets.

I cannot wait to put roots down on this piece of property one day...just thinking about sitting on my future porch with that view thrills me!


I take about a million photos of our lab, Forrest, every week because he's such a photogenic dog & seems to enjoy having his picture made.

I took this one of him on Christmas morning because we had an unseasonably warm day & he got new tennis balls for Christmas, so we took him to play in my parents pond.

He was soaking wet, exhausted, and so happy when I took this shot & it's one of my favorite memories. 



This is another shot of my hutch, but from a different angel so you can see even more of my favorite details!

I wanted my design for the new year to have a true farmhouse feel to it, light and airy with pops of the 2017 Pantone color of the year...greenery.

I added links for some of my favorite products like the Farmhouse Rules sign that was purchased on our way home from a beach vacation. It's by the brand Primitives by Kathy and she has the cutest tea towels (which I love), wall-hanging signs, pillows, home decor pieces, and more. 

The Unity Cross is the type of Unity ceremony that we did at our wedding & I love that it's so easy to display, such a sweet memory.

And the plant even has a sweet memory-my mentor who helped me become the teacher that I am today gifted me this plant on the day of my graduation. It's the only thing I've ever been able to keep alive for more than a few months (we've almost made it a year!) so that must mean it's extra special!

Then of course my Gran's china, which I've already covered πŸ˜‰


This palette was a gift from my biggest big sister for Christmas this past year & guys, it's literally the palette I use almost every day to get ready.

It's the Lorac Pink Champagne Palette & it's got great pigmentation and the highlight is seriously so buttery and beautiful.

It's an Amazon exclusive & limited-addition item though, so keep that in mind if you're thinking about purchasing!



Other than my hutch, my entry way is my other favorite vignette to decorate for each season.

After Christmas, I really wanted to go simple and not to over-the-top for each season (at least until Easter...I do love decorating for Easter!)

So I kept the same white & gold plaid table runner out, used a couple of antlers and dried hydrangea for a natural touch, and of course my copper mercury glass vases that work well any time of the year.

The chicken platter is a hand-painted piece from Portugal that one of my mother-in-law's dear friends (who is from Portugal) gifted us for our wedding. I just love those special touches.

Then in my crude, sad hand-writing I did a little chalk-art for the season of love (& a good year-round reminder). 



I have really loved having fresh flowers and working on my arranging skills lately; especially since we seem to have stumbled upon an early Spring here in Alabama (hopefully!)

These daffodils mixed with greenery came straight from my backyard & were a beautiful addition to my deck while I read a little Southern Living on a pretty afternoon.


This picture represents one of my favorite things to do with my husband (& also has a pretty nice story behind it as well).

So for Christmas my husband wrote me a letter gifting me a couple of different things; one of those things were three free dates for us to go wherever I wanted to go & do whatever I wanted to do.

Well, I've waited patiently & I finally cashed my first one in mid-February.
We headed to Auburn and stopped by J&M Bookstore and purchased the cutest & comfiest sweatshirt, walked around Samford park (where this gorgeous shot was taken), had dinner at Acre (which is the best restaurant in the history of forever), and finished with desert at Krispy Kreme.

Does it get any better than that?


Last weekend Chris & I attended the Alabama Young Farmer's Conference in Montgomery, which we've attended for the past three years together.

This year instead of sitting through seminars and listening to speakers, they decided to take all the Young Farmers on farm tours around the Montgomery area.

Chris & I got to go to Pursell Farms and then Pinthlocco Plantation which is a private wild quail preserve...and y'all, this place looked like something straight out of Southern Living magazine-it was stunning. 



Although I wouldn't toot my own horn & say I'm a fantastic photographer-I do enjoy playing with my camera & my phone and taking fun pictures along the way.

Just the other day I was in my horse pasture waiting on my three to come up for their afternoon feed & I spotted this gnarled piece of wood and vine on the fence line.
While some farmers might call it a nuisance, I called it a photo opportunity for my favorite subject; my wedding set.

So yes, I was standing in the middle of the pasture holding feed buckets while I got this shot..but it doesn't make it any less pretty πŸ˜‰


Love Bears All Things by Beth Wiseman  is a book that I just recently finished reading, and y'all if you have any interest in the Amish way of life (which I'll be honest, I think it's my love of history and sociology that have me so interested in them!) then this series is perfect for you.

She somehow blends the English & Amish worlds into one and makes it so easy to understand. I highly recommend her books for an easy, quick read.



And last but not least guys...I cooked something & it looked pretty, so you know I had to document it.

The Fiestaware that this meal is on was also a wedding gift (I did mismatched Fiesta dinnerware and I love having all the different colors!)

The meal consists of parmesan garlic toast, bbq marinated pork chops, Mexican street corn (that was grilled on the cob, but I cut it off before I ate it), and my newest favorite recipe find-garlic butter smashed sweet potatoes with parmesan.

I stumbled on that last recipe on Pinterest & we had two sweet potatoes I needed to use up, so I tested it out & it was SO good, y'all.

Go try it immediately.



Well...I hope y'all had a good time looking through my latest Insta posts-if you're not following along already, please go give me a follow @SouthernAndStyle

I would love to have you join me over there-I post daily and it's just like this post, a little bit of everything!


Until next time. . .

xoxo, 



Saturday, March 4, 2017

Empties {No.1}


Hey y'all!
I am so glad to be starting my first Empties post/series of the new year!
Because my empties aren't really "monthly" I want to do them by number instead, so that no one is confused and think I actually can go through this much stuff in one month ;)

Below you'll find my honest reviews on everything from skin care & makeup, to soaps & candles!
I'll share with you my loves, my hates, why I feel that way, and whether or not you should run and get these items.

I linked as many things as I could find below, some of the links are affiliate links which help support this blog, but all of them can be rounded up as well with a google search if you feel more comfortable doing that!

Thanks for reading along with me today & I hope you enjoy!


Bath & Body Works Twisted Peppermint Body Cream
I have made it my mission to start using up all of my lotions and potions that I've hoarded over the last few years and I started with this one around Christmas.
I love this formula (so rich and creamy) and the scent almost feels spa-like.
When I finally need lotion again, I will be picking up the B&BW body creams in some scent!

Victoria's Secret Mango Temptation Refreshing Body Mist
I'm also trying to get through my giant stock of body sprays & perfumes, this one was the first to go.
It has a very fruity scent, but once I make it through my body sprays I probably won't be purchasing many more of those because the scent doesn't have staying power.
I don't have time to reapply throughout the day so I need a scent that's long-lasting.
If you just want a mist for running-errands or after the gym, these are great and take forever to go through.

Bath & Body Works A Thousand Wishes Shower Gel
I had a couple of travel sized items this time around that I needed to just use up the ends (because they wouldn't have lasted an entire trip) and this was the first.
I love this scent and I love that I probably got this for free with a coupon-I love B&BW so much.
This one is kind of fruity and floral with a little hint of musk, all of my favorite things.
I have a million body washes to go through, but this scent is a winner!

Bodycology Brown Sugar Vanilla Shower Gel & Bubble Bath
This was another travel-size on it's last leg that I just used up.
The scent was probably something I liked when I was a little younger, but now it was too overpowering.
It wasn't bad to use up, but I wouldn't go out and purchase it again.

Yankee Candle Christmas Cookie Mini Candle
This was a little freebie from Bed, Bath, and Beyond a year or two ago & while I liked the sweet scent...this candle had absolutely no scent-throw.
I had it burning on a table right beside me and I never smelled anything at all.
I won't be buying any mini candles in my future. 

Bath & Body Works Crisp Morning Air Deep Cleansing Hand Soap
I think the Fall hand soaps might just be my favorite scents from B&BW.
This one is so fresh and clean, you could honestly use it any time of the year.
My only gripe about the deep cleansing version (while I do feel that it cleans very, very well) it's impossible to get all of the soap out of the bottle-unlike the foaming hand soaps.
I will probably continue to buy a mixture of both types though!



This mascara is so, so good y'all.
It separates and gives so much volume, it looks good paired with another mascara for length.
It even looks good on my bottom lashes & the trial sized tube is awesome and lasts a long time.
I have two other trial sizes of this not opened yet, so I'm thankful for those...but when I run out, this one is on my list-it should be on yours too!

I tried out a sample of this BB cream a long time ago, so I picked up the full-size for my "no-makeup, makeup" days. I really liked the sheer coverage it gave, but I honestly won't repurchase because now I'm more confident in not wearing makeup on my "off" days. I'd rather just let my skin breathe.
But if you want a sheer coverage BB cream, this one is good!

I love these EOS balms so much, I keep them stashed everywhere from my truck, my purse, my bedside table...everywhere! They're so moisturizing and they last so long.
I have several more in different flavors to open and use-I can't wait to try new flavors!

First things first, for a drugstore primer-this one is $16 which seems really expensive to me.
But I really liked how this one worked, it was very smoothing and it didn't irritate my face or clog my pores. However, do I think there are cheaper options that work almost as well-yes.
But this one is a good option that I might consider purchasing again-plus the packaging is gorgeous!

I got this in an Ispy bag a long time ago (when I actually spent my money on subscriptions) and for the longest time, I had no idea how to use it.
It's a translucent powder and when I finally figured out I could use it to set my under-eyes, it became a game changer.
I love this product so much that I will probably be re-purchasing for sure because I haven't found a drug-store translucent powder that compares.
This one is so finely milled and it sets powder so securely that there is no creasing happening, I love it!


I absolutely adore Exuviance products, they are truly great quality.
This mask is supposed to diminish dark spots and create a more even tone, which I feel like it does. My face usually feels considerably more brightened afterwards.
I also love the fact that this is a sheet mask because it's not messy.
If you're in the market for a face mask that is relaxing and actually does the job-this one is that!

Radha Beauty Eye Gel
I was sent this product a long time ago when I was first beginning my blog & when I was first jumping into skin care.
While the eye gel was very hydrating, I have discovered over time that I really like an eye cream that sinks into a skin rather than a gel like this that sits on top (or feels like it does).
This one isn't "empty" but I am tossing it, I don't like products that I'm never going to use crowding up my storage.

I LOVE trying out new masks so when I saw a discounted pack of Target's Que Bella mask's after Christmas I picked them up.
This is the only one that I've tried...but y'all, it was SO bad.
It's supposed to be pomegranate but the scent was so chemically and strong.
The product was so goopy and it just felt bad, it was so sticky it was honestly difficult to get off.
I use masks to relax and there was nothing relaxing (or refreshing) about this one.

If you've read my blog at all for like the last six months, you would know about my obsession with this eye cream.
It is so silky and smooth and soaks into your under-eye area so well, it leaves them hydrated and I just love it.
This little bottle lasted me forever and I'm dreading having to purchase it again.
But I'm currently using a slightly cheaper drugstore option that is almost as good that I cannot wait to share with y'all!

I purchased these at a discount store because on Influenster they had pretty decent reviews & they were inexpensive, plus I really really like trying face masks and eye pads.
These work fairly well, although now that I'm only down to one pack I'm noticing that they are drying out.
They haven't changed my under-eye dramatically, however they are soothing and refreshing.



There are so many things that I love about this shampoo; the scent (OMG the scent is so good), how it made my hair feel, the formula...but this packaging is SO bad.
I bought it at Target and was drawn in by the jumbo size but I will never again.
The bottle bowed in and made it impossible to get the product out by just squeezing, you had to pop off the top (hard to do in the wet shower) and make sure it's been upside down in the shower so it would pour out.
Really poor design by OGX, but I would buy the product again-just in the smaller sized bottle.

Since my sister & brother-in-law own a salon, sometimes I get really lucky and get samples of products like this that I fall in love with.
I used this when I needed a break from the horrible conditioner by Pura D'Or.
This Redkin one was amazing; it moisturized my hair SO well and made it feel silky smooth and soft without weighing it down.
I want a million bottles of this.

I'll be honest, I got this in a Target Beauty Box & handed it off to my husband because I hate him using my expensive hairspray.
But the couple of times that I reached for this on his counter, I really liked it.
It was light and didn't weigh my hair down or make it crunchy.
It seems like a pretty ideal drugstore option and I love that it's alcohol free.

This was another product from a Target Beauty Box that I ended up loving!
The formula of this shampoo is awesome and the scent is even better.
It's so fresh and clean and made my hair feel amazing, when I need shampoo I will probably pick this up from Target!

My husband and I stayed at a hotel that had Aveda products and I brought these back home with me because I liked them so much, so I just now finally used them up.
The scent of this was so, so refreshing and nice and I loved how light the formula of this product left my hair feeling.
However, in my search for the link for this product I found that Suave has a product in a similar scent...so I might pick that up and try it before I purchase the Aveda one!

I was sent this conditioner a while back to review and when I first started using it, I really did enjoy it.
I love that it's organic and cruelty free, I loved the soft lavender and vanilla scent.
But I hate how it made my hair feel after extended use.
I had to use a ton of the product first of all, then it still didn't help my hair feel manageable which caused more breakage than it helped.
Overall, I feel like this product was kind of a dud and I won't be purchasing.

Maybe I'm just not into natural products...I don't know, but I was not feeling this product.
I used it a few times, since it was only a packet but it just didn't foam up very well and I didn't feel like it cleaned my hair enough.


L'Oreal Pure Zone Cleansing Cloths
Apparently they don't make these anymore, which makes me really sad as I type this.
Mostly because these were super convenient because you wet them before you used them, they don't come pre-moistened, which meant they couldn't dry out.
The type of wipe was also really nice because it was almost exfoliating but not too rough.
If anyone knows of another wipe like this one I would appreciate knowing about it!

I could rave about Exuviance products all day long because I've never tried a bad one before, I like them all.
But these are really, really great.
I used up four of them this time around and if you have problems with texture on your skin then you need to pick these up.
When used consistently my skin is softer and my makeup looks better when applied.
It's a two-step system that takes about 10 minutes to do, but you only do it once or twice a week at most, and it's so worth the time and money.

I got these in a Target Beauty Box & was planning on trying them out last week to take them on an upcoming trip...and I'm glad I tested them out before I took them because they are awful.
I don't use wipes to remove my full face of makeup, just as a last cleansing step to take off any remnants from my other cleansing methods.
But these were rough and didn't have a lot of product to even take off makeup...and the smell, it's so strong and chemical scented, I couldn't stand it.
I used them up because there were only ten...but never again.

These are my holy grail makeup remover clothes.
Like I said before, I don't use these to take off my full face, but kind of as a last step and they work great for that.
They stay moist, they have the perfect amount of product on them, and they don't irritate my skin-what more could you ask for?
I love them, I think you would too!



I got this in one of my recent Tarte orders and I really liked the idea of it.
It's a moisturizer that is supposed to brighten at the same time, which now that I'm attempting to go makeup-free on off days this one is a winner for me.
In the future, I might invest in this one since it is a little bit of an investment at $32.
But the radiant glow that it gives is worth that!

Clinique has some really great skin products out there and I would love to test them all out over long periods of time but I unfortunately don't have the funds for that.
This foil packet was enough for about two uses and it didn't have anything ground breaking about it that made me want to go buy it, it was just really nice.
So if you have the money, yes-do it.
If not, maybe try the next one I'm going to mention?

I love trying out foil packets like this, because sometimes you find awesome products just like this one.
I love a gel moisturizer, I just feel like they sink into your skin better and really get deep into your skin and give the hydration mine needs.
When I run out of the moisturizers I have, this one is on my list to try full-sized.

I like this foundation so, so much y'all.
It's so good-I have it in the full size and I'm obsessed.
It melts into your skin so well and feels weightless while still giving a good medium coverage that I can wear every single day and feel confident about my skin.

Bath & Body Works Pocket Bac in Dancing Waters
I bought a ton of these when they changed over to their new shape, so I have so many to go through.
But this scent is a really good one, very fresh and clean.
I love that it wasn't overwhelmingly strong because I kept this one at my desk at school to use daily.
They have really nice hand sanitizers scents, and they're almost always on sale.

I really wanted to like this CC cream, but for almost $40 I would rather spend that money on a higher coverage foundation that I can use more often.
This one feels really good, really light on the skin and I love the SPF (if you like wearing makeup to the beach or on fun days outside, this would be a  really good option!) but it just isn't my cup of tea right now.

Here's what I have to say about this: It came in a Target Beauty Box, so of course I wanted to use it and try it. Did it work? Yes.
But did I like using it? Nope.
It's messy and it just didn't feel good using it.
It made my skin feel okay, but I hated using it and if I hate using something I will never buy it because it will go to waste.
The powder (which is flour and salt basically) got everywhere and it was hard to use because you can only get wet what you want to use that time, but you have to get it wet to use it.
I hate complicated products & this one was complicated.


Up & Up Color Cotton Swabs
These are always in my empties because my husband and I use these for everything.
We clean our ears (yeah, yeah we know we shouldn't but whatever), I clean up makeup mistakes, use them for our computer keyboards...you need some of these around & the store brand is a great money-saver.

Up & Up Five Blade Disposable Razors-2 Pack
I got these in a Target Beauty Box, and while I'm not usually picky about my razors...these were really bad.
They only were really usable for two or three uses and they seemed to rust quicker in the shower (once again, yes I know you shouldn't store your razor in there).
I wouldn't buy these again.

I received this in a promo box from Derma-E and was intrigued by the idea of a green powder for my smoothies. This one is supposed to help with digestion and cleansing, you can dissolve it in juice, water, or in smoothies.
I tried the smoothie route with orange juice and frozen berries and it actually tasted really good.
I have one more packet to use and I would really consider buying the larger size, it's got really good reviews on Amazon & I think it would be a great nutritional add to my smoothies this summer. 

I am a firm believer in taking a daily multivitamin and these have been my choice lately, mostly because I can buy them at Sam's in bulk and they're pretty inexpensive.
They do the job and have everything that I'm looking for, including 133% of the recommended daily value of Biotin.


:Candles:

Bath & Body Works Twisted Peppermint
This is seriously my favorite wintertime candle...when they come out (& when there is a sale) I stock up!
It's a fresh, slightly creamy and sweet minty scent.
It's not overwhelming and just makes your house smell clean and fresh, plus it's really great when you've got a winter cold!

Bath & Body Works Spiced Apple Toddy
This candle just screams Christmas to me.
I love how warm and spicy it is, when we have guests coming over during the Christmas season this was the candle I wanted to burn because it feels very homey.

Village Candle Maple Butter
When Publix has these candles buy one get one free, it's hard not to pick up a few because they have such unique scents and they last a really long time.
I loved this candle because it's slightly sweet, but you really get that buttery-ness to tone down the maple sweetness.
This makes your whole house smell like fresh pancakes, I highly recommend!

Bath & Body Works Summer Boardwalk
This is an older candle that I've hung onto forever, because it's that good.
It's similar to the Maple Butter candle above because it's supposed to smell like caramel and sweet cream, which it really does.

In case you don't know, the reason why my candles last so long is because after the wick is burned up I use a candle warmer to use up the wax. When they start having more of a burnt smell than actually smelling like the candle, I know it's time for them to move on.
It truly helps you get the most bang for your buck with you candles though!


If you made it to the end of that long (& sometimes ranting) post, you're the real MVP!
Thanks for reading along and I hope you learned something :)

Let me know below what products you recommend, do you use any of these & love or hate them too?!

Until next time. . .

xoxo, 



Saturday, February 25, 2017

10 Ways to Save Money This Year



Hey y'all!

I don't know about y'all, but I feel absolutely spent in more ways than once.

The start of a new year totally wears me out; I feel like there are so many things to be bought over the holidays, then all the pressure to buy things on sale once the holidays are over, then we jump right into buying for Valentine's Day!

There are just so many things to spend money on and if you're like me, not too much money to be spending.

So today I'm rounding up ten things that we have done in our house since the start of the new year to help save money. In the future we want to buy a house, take vacations, and one day have kids so it's important to save money now in order to be able to finance those things later!

1) Opt Out of Store Emails
If you're anything like me, then you probably receive about a million store emails every single day. These emails are telling you about the latest deals, new arrivals, and everything in between...but you don't need them!
They're so tempting, but they cause you to over-buy and to purchase things you normally wouldn't.
Who is guilty of going to Bath & Body Works when they're having a candle sale, even though you know you don't need new candles? I'm raising my hand over here!
You can use a website like Unroll Me that shows you a list of every email subscription list your on and you can take yourself off of them or you can open the emails one by one and go to the bottom and hit unsubscribe, whichever is easiest!
But I promise, this is a number one money-saver at our house!

2) Stop Eating Out!
This is SO hard for me because I love the idea of having someone else prepare my food, cook it, serve it to me, and clean up after me.
That's just so ideal and food tastes so much better if you don't have to cook it!
But cooking at home truly does save so much cash because you do pay for the convenience.

An alternate plan is to invite your friends or family over and have potluck meals (maybe on the weekends). That way you aren't stuck preparing ALL the dishes & you get to spend quality time with the ones you love.

3) Brew Coffee/Cook Breakfast at Home
This sort of goes in the same vein as number 2, but all of those Starbucks/Chick-Fil-A stops really do add up over time.
It costs about $0.18 per cup if you brew Starbucks brand beans at home, versus almost $4.00 for a latte at Starbucks.
The same goes for breakfasts; you can have a chicken biscuit at home for less than $2 per biscuit (buying your supplies from your local grocery store) versus over $2 for just the biscuit or almost $5 for the combo.

It just makes good sense to buy in larger sizes at the store and save your cash for other things!

4) Sell Old Clothes/Home Items
I'm a huge fan of buying and selling gently used clothing (that's how I've amassed my rather large Lilly collection, through re-sale!)
There are so many avenues to sell clothing and home items (think books, decor, furniture, etc.) but a few of my favorite ways are yard-sales, Facebook groups, and through apps like PoshMark.

Yard Sales are awesome, especially if you get together with one or two people so you can have a large spread. You can make a lot of money and get rid of a lot of stuff...and trust me, people will buy ANYTHING!

5) Skip the Gym Membership
No, I'm not telling you that you don't need to lose weight or get fit if that's what you want to do. But what I am telling you is that there are plenty of free ways to do it!

I personally love to walk at our local city park with Forrest, our pup.
It's a great way to get in cardio and get in some fresh air.
If you can't get out to a local park there are SO many YouTube videos that you can do for any kind of workout.

I'm a huge fan of Blogilates because Cassey is so motivational and fun to watch; she has all sorts of fun workouts ranging from 5 minutes to 30 minutes!
I also really like the ballet workouts that you can do at home.

You don't need any extra equipment (maybe a yoga mat) which makes this absolutely free!

6) Shop Your "Stash"
So many times I think I have to make a certain recipe I see on Pinterest and it requires a special trip to the grocery store for a million ingredients that I will never use again.
Or, I'm watching a beauty guru on YouTube & see them use a special product & think if I have it, I'll be able to achieve her look.

But guess what...you don't have to do that!

Over the past few months, I have gotten so good at shopping our pantry and freezer for meal ideas and we've been eating better than ever before.
I will say this; it does help that we have a farm and raise beef cattle so we usually have beef in the freezer and veggies that I've put up in the freezer as well.

But you can also shop your makeup and beauty stash as well and use makeup that you had forgotten about because you bought new items.

7) Sell Your Old Devices
I'm a big fan of yard sales but that's not the place to sell your old iPhone, iPad, iPod, etc.
Try online places like Gazelle  where you get a quote in less than 1 minute and they can pay you by PayPal, Amazon gift card, or by check.
Facebook groups or phone stores are also very good places to sell your old devices.

8) Kick Cable to the Curb
This is one that I haven't done yet, but my hubs and I have discussed this several times.
We could easily live off of Netflix and Hulu and only miss cable when it came to the 9 o'clock news!

9) Use Rewards Programs/Coupons
I LOVE a good rewards program (Target RedCard, I'm looking at you) and coupons are saviors for me.
For example, if I'm going to shop at Bath & Body Works I will only go when there is a sale AND a coupon, not just one or the other-I gotta have both to go.

I also highly recommend Rakuten if you're an online shopper. Long story short, if you go to stores through the Rakuten link they will give you so many percent cash-back for shopping in that store.
I have used this for years and received over $100 in cash back, so I promise it's the real deal!

10) Buy in Bulk!
We love our Sam's Club membership because we save so much money by buying in bulk.
You can buy meat in bulk (freeze it or cook it and freeze it!), you can buy large amounts of beauty products/vitamins, if you have pets you can get great deals on dog food and flea/tick treatment, plus they have killer deals on things like printers, books, and seasonal items.
We also buy all of Charlie's fruit there since he goes through it so rapidly-if anything starts to go bad, I'll stick it in the freezer to save it!

If you go in with family members then a club membership is even cheaper, so I highly recommend it!


I hope these suggestions gave you some ideas on how to save up for those big moments in your life.
If you have any more suggestions, please leave them down below!

Until next time. . .

xoxo, 



Monday, February 13, 2017

New Year, New Glow!

Okay, okay...it's hardly a "new year" anymore to most of y'all...But I still feel like I'm getting into the 2017 groove. In fact, just as I typed that...I still typed 2016.

But since I'm still in the new year mindset I want to share with y'all some of the products that have been giving my skin a new glow!
(maybe I'll learn to type & write out 2017 before we make it to 2018...who knows at this point.)

Below I'm rounding up some of my most favorite life-saving skin-saving products & I'm gonna tell you what they have done for me.

Some of these are oldies, some of them are newbies but all of them are products that I love so much & have been killing the skincare game for the beginning of 2017!



I love using a facial scrub a couple of times per week, especially during the winter when my skin gets super dried out and flakey.
I prefer this one because it's gentle but it does leave my skin noticeably softer and smoother.
Plus, when you use Derma-E products, you can feel good about using them because they are a cruelty-free brand!

Y'all, I just finished up my tube of this last night & I almost cried.
It's an investment at $52 for half an oz. but I seriously have never had more moisturized skin under my eyes before. Tula is a brand that has changed the way I think about skincare and I can't wait to purchase more of their items!

There is just something about using a mask that makes me feel relaxed.
For the past two Saturdays, I have woken up and put on a charcoal mask while I had my chai tea latte and breakfast and it has been a game changer.
This cleans all the junk out of my pores which really helps my moisturizer and serums soak in, I just love it.

I've been using this bottle for a while now (hello, it's 16 oz...for $8, I might add) and I am really loving the results that I'm getting from it.
I like to double-cleanse my skin and this is an awesome second step.
It removes my Burt's Bee's oil cleanser and any bit of makeup that might be left behind, but it doesn't leave my skin feeling stripped.
This is one of the best skincare bargains that I've found.

Cleansing Oils are honestly a game-changer.
I hate taking off my makeup because before this product, I never felt like it all completely came off.
But now I know it does, because as soon as this oil touches my face it starts to melt the makeup away.
The scent is light and not overpowering, it's not too greasy of a formula (although I do double-cleanse with the cleanser above), and overall I just really enjoy this.

I've noticed a few hormonal breakouts, especially on my chin lately so I knew I needed something that would knock them out quickly.
When I was at Target, I grabbed a toner from their Up & Up brand and I have been so pleased with it.
I just use it on the areas where I break out (& I don't use it every day) and it keeps my skin clear and fresh feeling.

Y'all, I am so thrilled with these products. Yes, I do use a couple others but they're ones that I've talked to death here on the blog (I'm looking at you, Neutrogena Makeup Remover wipes)

I hope y'all enjoyed this post & if there are any skincare products out there that y'all love, please let me know below!

Until next time. . .

xoxo, 





A big thank you to Derma-E  for providing me with product in exchange for an honest review.  All opinions are my own.  Thank you for supporting brands who support Southern & Style.

Saturday, February 4, 2017

Household Favorites

Hey y'all!

Today I'm bringing y'all a post about something most of us dread and abhor....cleaning.

But this spring-type weather Alabama has been having me wanting to keep everything fresh & sparkling, so I thought y'all might be interested in my tried and true products!

Since getting married and actually having to "keep house" for myself and Chris, I feel like I've come up with a solid list of cleaning items that I absolutely love to use and can't do without.

When I do laundry, I want it to be as quick and easy as possible.
These pods do a really good job of getting our clothes clean (which is a real job if you consider that my husband farms for a living). The pod is just so convenient because there's not any measuring or dripping or leaving puddles of soap all over the place. 

My friend, Paige turned me onto Bar Keeper's Friend stuff and there's a reason why I trust her...her house is literally spotless always, it looks amazing-I wish mine looked half as good as hers!
But this stuff is great for cleaning the top of my stove especially. I just apply it, let it dry, and scrape it off with my razor blade.

If you want to clean your toilet with absolutely zero effort, this is your cleaner.
I can pour this stuff it, wait five or ten minutes and come back and I honestly don't even have to use a brush, it's that clean!
I'm also a big fan of the Lysol Lime & Rust Remover toilet bowl cleaner for those times when we have stubborn stains like hard water buildup, etc. This cleaner knocks that right off with very little effort.

This stuff is amazing for so many different reasons.
I obviously use it to wash my hand-wash dishes with, but I use it to clean my shower/tub combo and I even keep a bottle in my laundry room to get stains out of clothes because nothing works better!

I know this is all items that I swear by...but y'all, I might have an addiction to these, I keep them everywhere!
I literally have one container in the kitchen, one in each bathroom in our house, and I keep them in my classroom as well.
You can use these everywhere and they are great because not only do they clean, but they disinfect (great for teachers to use on desks and doorknobs)
I buy mine in bulk at Sam's Club & they typically come in a couple of different scents...the orange and lemon are my favorites-so fresh!

I buy these in bulk at Sam's Club as well, because I cannot stand a nasty sponge.
I use these at least once a day when I clean our hand-wash dishes (my travel mugs, our stainless steel pots & pans, our nice knives, etc.)
They don't scratch up our stainless steel and they last a really long time, you can just toss them in the dishwasher and air dry them to keep them fresh longer.

This is another item that my friend Paige turned me onto, but these towels are awesome!
I use ours to dry dishes, to dry our hands, to clean the kitchen, to clean mirrors...basically everything.
I just buy them from Target (Amazon also has awesome deals on them) and they're white, you can just bleach them if they start looking dingy or replace them because they're so inexpensive.
I love them because they don't leave lint behind on your dishes, they dry quickly, and they are thin and easy to store.

I try to Swiffer our wood floors at least two times per week, sometimes more.
These sweeper pads catch all of the dust and dirt that seems to magically accumulate all over our house & I love how the Swiffer can get up underneath tables and night stands, it's just a great cleaning tool for in between big sweeping & mopping sessions. 
Pro Tip: Get the lavender scented pads...they smell so light and fresh!

I love the pod form of dishwasher detergent just like I like it for the washing machine, it's so so easy to measure out the right amount and there is no mess.
The cascade brand always gets our dishes clean & has left no residue or weird smell on our dishes like some other brands do.

About a year ago, I went down the rabbit hole on YouTube of watching cleaning videos-it's so weirdly satisfying and motivating!
I discovered this mop on YouTube and was suckered into buying it because I loved how easy it seemed to be to use it.
Y'all-this mop is everything I didn't know I needed!
This particular kit comes with two different bottles for your solution of choice and three washable pads that velcro to the mop.
I keep one bottle with our tile floor cleaner and one mop with our hardwood floor cleaner, and I swap the pads out between mopping the tile & the hardwood as well, but there is always at least one pad in the closet in case we have a mess that needs mopped between washes.

I got this vacuum two years ago for Christmas (that's when you know you're an adult, right?)
But it has held up so, so well even with a Lab that sheds like crazy inside and now a toddler, too.
It truly is really light, the battery lasts long enough for me to vacuum my entire house (upstairs and downstairs), and it's relatively easy to clean too.
The one complaint that I have about it is the hair-wrap situation, because I have very long hair that seems to fall out worse than Forrest's. I have to cut it out of the vacuum pretty regularly.
The next vacuum I purchase will be the Shark that prevents hair wrap-but this one makes me happy until then!

Well, I hope that helped y'all in some way...or maybe at least now you're inspired to clean a little bit?
Let me know below some of your favorite cleaning products!

Until next time. . .

xoxo, 



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